I have wondered if this after coming across a video of a guy taking about a similar dating experience in NY then it made me wonder if the guy I have been seeing is being this way. I didn't meet him on the apps though. He was a previous connection I met.while working at sleep away camp 1.5 hour north of the city. He's from the city though. And me I am well I lived most of my life in metro Atlanta, GA. But I guess it now makes sense to me with his approach to be overly focused on work and whatever else keeps him sane.
I am planning to move to NY soon and I am not expecting or trying to find the one soon [bc I still have my doubts on him with or without my trauma from my last serious relationship] So I guess NY will be the change I need to have confidence in my own independence again.
Not to say some guys don't play these games in Atlanta. There's already been some coming out of the woodwork since I ve been prepping my move. 😄
I have wondered if this after coming across a video of a guy taking about a similar dating experience in NY then it made me wonder if the guy I have been seeing is being this way. I didn't meet him on the apps though. He was a previous connection I met.while working at sleep away camp 1.5 hour north of the city. He's from the city though. And me I am well I lived most of my life in metro Atlanta, GA. But I guess it now makes sense to me with his approach to be overly focused on work and whatever else keeps him sane.
I am planning to move to NY soon and I am not expecting or trying to find the one soon [bc I still have my doubts on him with or without my trauma from my last serious relationship] So I guess NY will be the change I need to have confidence in my own independence again.
Not to say some guys don't play these games in Atlanta. There's already been some coming out of the woodwork since I ve been prepping my move. 😄